What I Learned in Kindergarten Became Reality in Intramural/Recreational Sports
In the book, “All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten” by Robert Fulghum, we learned that the basic truths in life were taught to us in kindergarten. While this may be true, I maintain that these basic truths take center stage when people participate in campus recreation activities. I know of no better place to experience the behavior required for a healthy, productive life than in an activity sponsored by the Intramural/Recreational Sports Program. For many, participation can be a life-changing experience. For all of us, it will be life-experiencing.
Based on my 30 plus years in campus recreation, I have learned these truths about people who participate:
They have a sharing spirit, develop leadership skills, and learn to follow.
They want to share their lives with others.
They know that playing fair is the right thing to do.
They know that rules are important and want to help make them.
They don’t hit people except on very rare occasions but, for the most part, are remorse after the incident.
They have learned that negotiation is far better than confrontation.
They know that warm milk and cookies are good for you when taken in moderation.
They are developing and/or have a balanced life – learn some and think some and work some and play a lot.
They have a high degree of respect for their fellow human beings and the planet.
They are aware of wonder and accept it. The little things in life are just as important today as they were in kindergarten.
They can still act like they are in kindergarten and get away with it.
They know how to laugh and have fun. The ability to laugh at themselves becomes most important.
They know that health and life is fleeting and must be nurtured on a regular basis.
They know to return equipment and to clean up their own mess.
They know that being seen in the gym is important. It truly is a social environment.
They take pride in the accomplishments of others and know the importance of recognizing those accomplishments.
They realize that losing is not the end of the world. Failing to try is far worse than losing.
And it is still true, no matter how old you are – when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.
